Category Archives: Divorce Recovery

Living Hell

“I have been thru a living hell in my 30 years of marriage. You all have walked this walk with me, some of you noticed and knew things were wrong, some of you were there first hand, some of you … Continue reading

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Message Of A Sociopath

Divorcing a sociopath is terrifying, confusing and has long-lasting devastating effects.  Simply put, You were once the perfect mate and now you are the worst. You do not leave a sociopath, even if they leave you.  Their goal is to destroy you using any means possible, through financial measures, social connections, reputation and/or the ultimate weapon, your children. 3 Obvious signs a parent may be a sociopath. *emotionally harms their children repeatedly, often seemingly on purpose *After hurting them the socio-pathic parent acts like it never happened
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Russian Roulette: A Dangerous Financial Game

those little hairs on the back tingled as I played Russian Roulette and put fiduciary trust in my partner. Blame and ignorance don’t pay the bills Continue reading

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Beginning of the End

May 22, 2017 Early this morning, I woke sobbing from a terrible dream.  In my dream, I walked into my showroom and discovered it empty.  One of my managers had sold everything in anticipation of closing up shop.   I … Continue reading

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First Day of A Different Life

Betrayed. Foolish. Desper…well, there was a tiny bit of excitement buried under the pain of divorce. Continue reading

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