Category Archives: healing after divorce

Living Hell

“I have been thru a living hell in my 30 years of marriage. You all have walked this walk with me, some of you noticed and knew things were wrong, some of you were there first hand, some of you … Continue reading

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Power Of Coincidence

People come into your life for a reason, sometimes they pop in with a message, either subtly or in-your-face, and then they immediately leave your life. Others are there for a lifetime, weaving in and out and shaping who you … Continue reading

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Message Of A Sociopath

Divorcing a sociopath is terrifying, confusing and has long-lasting devastating effects.  Simply put, You were once the perfect mate and now you are the worst. You do not leave a sociopath, even if they leave you.  Their goal is to destroy you using any means possible, through financial measures, social connections, reputation and/or the ultimate weapon, your children. 3 Obvious signs a parent may be a sociopath. *emotionally harms their children repeatedly, often seemingly on purpose *After hurting them the socio-pathic parent acts like it never happened
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Mirror, Mirror

Mirror, Mirror, look at me Show the woman that I see Her eyes are soft, but they do not shine Her mouth is full but does not speak Her cheekbones high, her jaw clenched tight Her rosy blush hides the … Continue reading

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Seek Truth, Know Truth, Accept Truth

What the world doesn’t need is another spiritual pithy statement, but, lessons come in all forms and what the world does need is more openness and acceptance.  It’s ok to receive, we don’t always have to give.  In fact, if … Continue reading

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How to Divorce an Emotionally Abusive Person?

…the only way to divorce an emotionally abusive person or narcissist is to disengage, find a way to forgive yourself, love yourself and then eventually forgive them. Continue reading

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Oprah, Mother Theresa and The Little Black Dress

Who knew the Golden Globes would serve as my epiphany. Wow!  Many of the women were supermodel thin, glamorous, wore black dresses and were mesmerized by Oprah Winfrey as she held captive the audience for no less than 20 minutes.  … Continue reading

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